How to Get Customers Talking About Your Service

When was the last time you had a positive service experience worth talking about? It might surprise the Wright Brothers to learn that my most recent memorable moment was not the miracle of flight, but that an airline employee let me pre-board with my toddler and gave us a full bottle of water instead of a cup. The extra attention and human touch made my day.

These gestures — the ones that are never expected but always welcome — humanize mundane service experiences and are the key to getting customers to talk about your company. Delivering personalized services goes a long way, especially with millennial buyers who are quick to publicly evangelize or shame brands. Businesses that can figure out how to motivate their teams to go above and beyond in delivering great service will find exponential returns in every notch above the status quo.

Understanding the Value of Surprise and Delight

There are dozens of moving parts to keep your business running smoothly and securely, but customers rarely see these moving parts. What customers see is what they expect to see: the end result of what they paid for. For the provider, it’s a job well done. For the consumer, that only means that the business fulfilled its end of the bargain — hardly something to get excited about.

What impresses customers the most are the details: the genuine greetings, the mouthwash and lint rollers in the bathroom, or the shawls provided for anyone who gets cold during meetings. Surprise-and-delight not only delivers that extra level of service, but it also targets the people who notice (and talk about) the small stuff. By pushing a surprise-and-delight strategy, you can turn your biggest potential detractors into your most vocal supporters.

The value of surprise-and-delight doesn’t end with the customer. It also provides employees with something tangible that they can be proud of. Human connections are a two-way street. Now, more than ever, people look for purpose and context in their work, rather than just paychecks. Surprise-and-delight creates stories that are more than simple numbers.

Implementing a New Strategy Into Your Business

While it seems easy to add in touches to accomplish surprise-and-delight, this strategy is about more than actions — it’s about creating a culture where the extra mile is always the goal. Here are three steps to get your company there:

Create a Playbook 

You need a framework that defines what surprise-and-delight means for your stakeholders and customers. To do this, we break down our stakeholders into the most granular details possible and map out their product or service experiences through the customer life cycle.

As you go through your stakeholder mapping process, get emotional — understand what their fears and aspirations are and craft an experience around the five senses. What this playbook should ultimately do is decode the emotional opportunities of your customers so you can seize them.


Once the framework is set up, the company culture needs to follow suit. All communications from the company should be contextualized around creating meaningful, high-touch customer experiences, and the results of these efforts should be measured and celebrated. For example, this could mean sending handwritten thank-you notes to employees who exemplify surprise-and-delight.

As we go above and beyond in managing our employees, they see not only that their work is appreciated, but they also see a demonstration of what surprise-and delight actually is. That way, this form of customer service becomes second nature instead of a single memo that is quickly forgotten.

Create a Feedback Loop 

Along with management buy-in, employees need to recognize surprise-and-delight on a day-to-day basis. Calling out stellar service moments results in these stories being told, remembered, and reinforced. Leaders should personally congratulate those who employ the practice regularly: This creates a rhythm of recognition, and it becomes part of the daily dialogue. Your workforce will feel fulfilled and acknowledged, and your customer base will be more than satisfied.

Loyalty fuels engaged customers. People expect to get good service — that’s not where the accolades are won. The key is to give people service they will talk about. Take the time to do little things that people will find remarkable, and you will both surprise and delight them every single time.

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Chris is an entrepreneur focused on future-of-workplace, real estate as-a-service, RE Tech and values-based leadership.
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